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	<title>Laura Shaffer &#124; The Heart of the Matter</title>
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		<title>The Wedding Story (from the maid of honor)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 01:33:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Shaffer</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[It was exactly one year ago that Josh and Kristin started their relationship . . . and now the wedding is over and they are honeymooning!! Our family feels so blessed and honored by the kindness and support of our family and friends during this wedding season. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>It was exactly one year ago that Josh and Kristin started their relationship . . . and now the wedding is over and they are honeymooning!! Our family feels so blessed and honored by the kindness and support of our family and friends during this wedding season. You all mean the world to us. So many of you have asked about the wedding, so here are the details from the maid of honor. I know you all really want to hear from Kristin and Josh, but they are in Hawaii right now (it snowed in South Bend this morning: I&#8217;m not at all jealous), so my story will have to satisfy for now.</strong></p>
<p><strong>I hope you enjoy the story and the pictures!</strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.laurashaffer.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/the-kiss.jpg" rel="lightbox[71]" rel="lightbox[71]"><img class="size-full wp-image-68" style="vertical-align: middle;" title="the-kiss" src="http://www.laurashaffer.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/the-kiss.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="333" /></a></strong></p>
<p><strong>I got into Houston about  a week and a half before the big day, and Kristin and I turned right around to head up to Dallas for the weekend. We stayed at their apartment. Poor Josh was banished to the blowup mattress in the guest room. I guess that will be my bed the next time I visit them ;-) We had a great time just hanging out, then the rest of the family and the Voice of Grace ensemble came up Saturday night. Sunday morning the ensemble sang at the two services at Josh&#8217;s church.</strong></p>
<p><strong>The week of the wedding started off amazingly normal. Monday I took the kids to their writing class, then ate at Chick-fil-a with Kathryn (first of many visits to that restaurant this trip! We are rather addicted.) Tuesday I took over the meal planning and preparation, so most of the day was spent at the grocery and in the kitchen. It&#8217;s amazing how quickly food preparation skills for a large family kick back in. I&#8217;ve been on a single person&#8217;s diet for so long (i.e. cereal) that it was a treat to fix real food for the family.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Wednesday night was a special night. We had all the bridesmaids (except Sarah, Josh&#8217;s sister, who was sick) over to our house for a nice dinner. I wanted it to be a special night for Kristin, and give everyone the opportunity to show her how much we love her. :) Everyone gave her a special personal gift and made her cry. Then we watched movies and talked and ate and just had a blast!</strong></p>
<p><strong>The guys had a bachelor party the same night, playing basketball and eating at CiCis. Such a guy thing. :)</strong></p>
<p><strong>Kristin was pretty busy the whole week before, wrapping everything up. She did an incredible job planning the wedding. Every detail turned out so beautifully, speaking of the countless hours she poured into it. And not only was she planning a wedding, but she was packing for a trip of a lifetime, and moving out of town.  Any one of those things would be enough, but she pulled off all three. Josh and Mom were huge helps in the process, but I was so proud of Kristin for managing everything so well.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Friday morning I took Kathryn and Matthew down to the church with me, and we were amazed at all the work so many volunteers were doing. There were probably 50 people there throughout the day getting ready for the rehearsal dinner and wedding. It was humbling and a blessing at the same time.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Rehearsal dinner was outstanding! Paula Wychopen outdid herself. The decor, the flowers, the food (compliments of Larry Stephens), the program&#8211;wow, wow, wow.  Amazing.</strong></p>
<p><strong>When I walked into the sanctuary for the rehearsal, I was blown away by the  gorgeous stage and the music from the practicing choir and orchestra. It was breathtaking. Overwhelming. Real. I had to have a little cry. Wow&#8211;this is really happening, and it is so beautiful!</strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.laurashaffer.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/kristin2.jpg" rel="lightbox[71]" rel="lightbox[71]"><img class="size-full wp-image-70" style="vertical-align: middle;" title="kristin2" src="http://www.laurashaffer.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/kristin2.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="415" /></a></strong></p>
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		<title>The Wedding Day</title>
		<link>http://www.laurashaffer.com/2009/04/06/the-week-before-the-wedding/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 01:19:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Shaffer</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[The bridesmaids and Josh's mom all came up to the house for brunch and to get ready for the wedding. We had such a fun time! Everyone was working on their hair, makeup, nails, dress. We were talking and laughing and crying and having a great time! A limo came to pick us up for the wedding--what fun!]]></description>
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		<title>History Comes Alive!</title>
		<link>http://www.laurashaffer.com/2009/03/02/history-comes-alive/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 01:43:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Shaffer</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[General News]]></category>

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		<title>In honor of the Super Bowl</title>
		<link>http://www.laurashaffer.com/2009/02/04/in-honor-of-the-super-bowl/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 02:14:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Shaffer</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[In honor of the Super Bowl last weekend, I decided to post something about sports. What you are about to read reflects pretty much my total knowledge of sports. :-)]]></description>
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		<title>Random New Year&#8217;s Thoughts</title>
		<link>http://www.laurashaffer.com/2009/01/17/random-new-years-thoughts/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Jan 2009 16:07:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Shaffer</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I came home a couple weeks ago from being in Texas for 10 days.

A trip home to see the family is guaranteed to be packed full from start to finish! Parties, a wedding shower, church, visiting with friends and supporters, Christmas, a concert, more visiting with family and friends, shopping, taking the kids out, . . .
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		<title>cherishing life</title>
		<link>http://www.laurashaffer.com/2008/05/31/cherishing-life/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 May 2008 23:36:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Shaffer</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[abortion]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[crises pregnancy center]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[This morning, I had the opportunity to help with a Life Walk fund raiser for our local crises pregnancy center in Niles, Michigan. In between helping people get registered for the walk and catching my papers from blowing away in the early morning breeze off the river, I had time to think about what we were doing.]]></description>
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		<title>an ANCIENT prayer for MODERN times</title>
		<link>http://www.laurashaffer.com/2008/05/15/an-ancient-prayer-for-modern-times/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 18:20:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Shaffer</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[In light of the distressing international food crises, the destructive cyclone in Burma, and the devastation of China's earthquake, I thought this prayer by Clement (an early church father) is especially appropriate. ]]></description>
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		<title>If you&#8217;ve lived in the Midwest . . .</title>
		<link>http://www.laurashaffer.com/2008/05/08/if-youve-lived-in-the-midwest/</link>
		<comments>http://www.laurashaffer.com/2008/05/08/if-youve-lived-in-the-midwest/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 21:11:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Shaffer</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[you'll understand this comic strip.]]></description>
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		<title>Spring Is Here!</title>
		<link>http://www.laurashaffer.com/2008/05/05/spring-is-here/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 May 2008 23:39:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Shaffer</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[ Oh, give us pleasure in the flowers to-day;/
And give us not to think so far away/
As the uncertain harvest; keep us here/
All simply in the springing of the year. 

--Robert Frost]]></description>
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		<title>The People&#8217;s Beatitudes</title>
		<link>http://www.laurashaffer.com/2008/03/11/the-peoples-beatitudes/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Mar 2008 19:37:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Shaffer</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Reflections]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I am reading a little book off-and-on since Christmas called "The Pursuit of Man:: The Pursuit of God" by A.W. Tozer. In it, I found this little set of principles for a success-driven life. Ever find yourself in one of these attitudes?]]></description>
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